The Glasses Half Full

My sister Katy and I hung out the other night, topping off our evening with a viewing of the motion picture Predators. She and I used to go see bad horror movies together all the time; we don’t do it much anymore, but from time to time it helps keep us young. Or something like that.

Also, let’s be clear: Predators is not actually a bad movie. I daresay, in fact, that it’s close to being a good one, if you keep your expectations at the right level. Though it’s by all accounts a modern movie, parts of it feel like a throwback to late 80s/early 90s action films; brawny dudes exchanging wisecracks, shooting big guns, and being dispatched in ridiculously gory ways, with a token badass woman and a grouchy, misunderstood, more-to-him-that-it-seems-at-first hero. The movie takes place on another planet and is sort of a sci-fi/horror “The most dangerous game,” with Topher Grace as a weird/nerdy/probably-miscast doctor and Lawrence Fishburne as an even weirder crazy dude. People fall out of the sky and have no idea where they are. There’s a “good” predator. The sun doesn’t move in the sky. There are creepy horned “dogs.” It’s a lot of fun.

On our way to the theater, Katy asked me if I was going to wear contact lenses for my wedding. I thought about it, scratched my chin, made a “thinky” face, and eventually replied that after several months of deep internal debate, I simply don’t know.

I got my first pair of glasses at a very young age – maybe as young as 4? – and have had pretty bad eyesight ever since. After my first pair, I wore the exact same kind of frames until I was a teenager, and for some reason I’ve kept them all – I have a drawer in my bedside table with increasingly large glasses. It wasn’t until four or five years ago that I finally got myself a “stylish” pair of pseudo-hipster glasses, and it wasn’t until a few months ago that I picked out a pair all by my little self. I was pretty proud of that, actually. I get a lot of compliments on the frames. “What, these ol’ things?” I usually say.

Me looking devilish in my very first pair

My second pair, or at least one of the many iterations of it over the years. Please note: Katy's glasses are amazing.

Towards the end of high school and all the way through college, I wore contacts every day. I’d decided I’d had enough of having a plastic contraption on my face that slid off when I was sweaty and discouraged sharp peripheral vision, among other drawbacks. But after college, I just stopped wearing them. I don’t know if it was laziness, the constant irritation in my eyes, or the combination, but now I only wear contacts for me weekly softball games and the occasional athletic event I participate in.

My first "hip" frames.

What I said to Katy was this:

“For a while, I was sure I’d wear my glasses for my wedding. My glasses are way more “me” than my contacts. Everyone is used to me wearing them. But then I started thinking about that, and realized that that rationale doesn’t make a lot of sense: the entire wedding is not very “me” at all. I’ll be wearing a suit – or at least fancy clothes – which I rarely ever do. I’ll be proclaiming my love for a hot babe in front of 150 people, which I do rarely, if ever. I’ll be spending $10,000 on one single evening, which sometimes seems so crazy I can’t even rationalize it. I may be baking 300 dinner rolls, which is about 10 times as many as I’ve ever made before.”

The point is, I shouldn’t wear or not wear glasses because it reflects my true self the best. In reality, I probably should just do whatever the heck I want, whatever feels the most comfortable to me.

My guess is that I’ll wear them, because I won’t have to worry about my eyes getting red or my contacts falling out. But then again, maybe I’ll wear them for the ceremony and then take them off for the dance-times.

I imagine all of you will wait with bated breath to find out what I choose.




9 responses to “The Glasses Half Full

  1. Your dad (who read this post first, here in our ugly little hotel in Oregon, ‘just thought you’d like to know) said I’d be sure to make a comment on this post. He meant about the age you began wearing glasses. And guess what…I don’t remember exactly but it was when you were in the 2nd or 3rd of your 3 kindergarten classes at EB, thus somewhere between age 4 1/2 – 6 1/2,, right after recovering from chicken pox. There. Maman has spoken.

  2. haha, love this post. Predators totally rocked….left me with a few questions, but way less then I was expecting. Can’t wait for the next awesome horror/action movie night with you.

    My glasses were pretty amazing, I used to get the adult sized glasses because I hated wearing them, and so to me, the bigger the better so I could have as much peripheral vision as possible.

  3. Predators is now on our list of stuff to watch.

    You two need to see House of the Devil. I’d give it a 4 out of 5. It was made recently, but looks just like an 80s slasher. It’s pretty effed up too, which we love. You can read a review here:

    Josh will be wearing his glasses at our wedding. He wears them everywhere- even to the beach. I think they’re permanently affixed to his nose.

  4. If your ceremony is going to be outside, I should like to see your eyes Mr. Transition Lenses.

  5. Drew – Such a good point! Sunglasses would be a little odd…

  6. Tony is wearing his glasses. I, on the other hand, am too vain for my own good and would rather squint than wear my glasses. Also, I look better in soft-focus, much like Barbra Streisand in every movie she has ever produced starring herself.

  7. Since you kept all your glasses, I think you should wear each pair at different points in the evening. Possible different outfits with each pair.

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